Mother says her scientifically-backed hairband trick to ensure she NEVER loses her temper with her children has transformed their behaviour (and 500,000 parents use it)
- Kelly Holmes, 39, from Austin, Texas, is a mother to three children under ten
- Struggled to keep temper in check so researched science behind healthy habits
- Created the five hairband trick, which involves placing five hairbands on wrist
- You must remove one every time you lose your temper but can earn them back
- Little things such as joking with children and hugging them earn them back
- Trick is based on research from The Gottman Institute called the Magic 5:1 Ratio
- For every one negative interaction you need five positive interactions to balance
A mother-of-three who resolved to never lose her temper with her children again has created a clever hairband trick she maintains has totally transformed her relationship with her offspring.
Kelly Holmes, 39, from Austin, Texas, is a mother to a nine-year-old, four-year-old and one-year-old and admits that she struggled to keep her temper in check so began researching the science behind how to form healthy habits.
She used various studies to invent the hairband trick, which involves placing five hair ties around your wrist. If you catch yourself snapping at your child, you have to move one hair tie to the other wrist - but your goal is to make it to the end of the day with all five hair ties on the original wrist. Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4558468/Mother-shares-scientifically-backed-hairband-trick.html
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